“A year ago when I stumbled across Kat’s blog I remember I was so fascinated with all of the articles she had. I recall exactly what phrase I searched to get there: “Should I text him?”

I was dating a guy long distance at the time and we probably saw each other once a month. I was very EU but I had no idea what that even meant let alone that I was.

I remember clicking on the products page and thinking is she CRAZY? Charging THIS MUCH? I decided to keep reading the free material. I eventually bought the book and read it in two hours.

Fast forward a year later. I joined the monthly membership back in April and just finished Journey Inward. I went to the products page the other day to look up my next course, and I thought to myself is she CRAZY? Charging this LITTLE?

These products are worth 10 times what Kat is charging. I’m not trying to sound like a commercial but I feel compelled to write this because I hear a lot of women questioning whether they should invest in Kat’s products.

Like everyone else I came here because of a man I wanted to want me. After taking these classes and doing the work I realized today that I don’t care if he wants me anymore. This is the first time in my adult life that my relationship with MYSELF is the most important one.

I was thinking about going to therapy around the time I joined this group. So glad I didn’t. I literally sit sometimes in silence and think about how grateful I am to Kat. Tears came to my eyes while writing this post. My life has changed so much, not just in regards to men but everything. My relationship with my family, my coworkers, strangers, everyone. Kat’s blog talks about how to get your ex back but in reality she is teaching how to get your SELF back.

I don’t worry about being claimed anymore, because I am claiming myself. I’m not worried about being in a relationship anymore, because I have been in one all along, I just didn’t realize it.

I am so grateful to Kat, she is my angel. I have learned more in these last few months than I have learned in a lifetime. Now I am so excited for what my future holds. I see such awesome changes in my life over this short time I’ve been here, and I KNOW the best is yet to come.

So if you are the fence about whether or not to invest in a class or course, please know it is so worth it. I will eat ramen noodles for a month to pay for these materials because I know that I will see amazing changes once I start to implement these tools.

The interesting part is that I actually have more money now that I have started to focus on myself, practice gratitude and the law of attraction, all as a result of joining this group.

So please do not hesitate to make this investment in yourself ladies. The changes to your life will be priceless and you’ll wonder why you didn’t do it sooner.

The ROI is infinite. I have read countless books and tried countless programs like many others. Searching for answers, for love, sometimes no idea wtf I was searching for. Now I have inner peace, self-love and awareness… and you can’t put a price tag on that.

Kat, it’s true you have no idea how much of an impact you are making on the world. If I could contribute a fraction of what you have I would be happy. All of these women in this group and you take care of us! So many of us and only one of you! Somehow you know us and our stories and take the time to acknowledge all of us. It amazes me.

Thanks Kat I am forever grateful. “

“Listen I’m not gonna sugar coat shit. I’ve wanted to die for years. My depression was deep. My best friend was murdered. Her throat was cut. Her body was thrown in the bushes after she was drugged and raped.

The same dude that did that to her tried to do the same to me. He got as far as cutting my throat. I was drugged, kidnapped and raped at 16! My friend had it worse than me sadly.

I had PTSD. I had anxiety. I had survival guilt…whatever they want to call it.

I experienced depression and intense anxiety suicidal feeling. Other than PTSD, I’ve been diagnosed with bi-polar extreme anxiety to the point I’d been unable to function or work, etc. I tried every drug the doctors gave me for 10 years. Some in the morning, some at night, on and on.

I’ve suffered this way for almost 30 years. I’ve done every therapy. Some helped a bit but I could never get off the drugs.

I was like a hamster stuck in a wheel.

Last summer I found Kat. Signed up for Journey Inward. I’ve now been able to be completely med-free and here’s the best thing: I have no more depression or anxiety.

My depression was so bad I’d fall to the floor begging my angels to take me out. I’ve been told my mind was imbalanced. My serotonin levels were not right. I had years of counseling, 12 steps, group therapy, classes, courses, books, past life regressions, Louise Hays, Abraham Hicks, you name it.

I’ve been a seeker. A meditator. A warrior. I’ve been in a gang. I’ve be done every drug from the doctor, every street drug.

I’ve been married, divorced. Done it all over again. Moved 37 times. And finally I found Kat. At 44 years old.

She taught me about my mind and how to deal with my depression and anxiety with RAIN (Recognition, Acceptance, Investigation and Non-identification).

I’m 45 now and I’ve never had so much peace in my life. I can see my mind and I watch it when feelings come up. I meditate and use her RAIN techniques. All minds are the same. She is right.

Our minds can be tamed but you got to get out of the way and listen and try. I will follow her till the end. She’s blunt because she has to deal with some of us, masculine women (which I have been too). It makes me cry all the time in utter gratitude. Something has so profoundly shifted in me that I really cannot explain. It’s seeing I’m not my mind. Drugs only prolong this dark place and fake it.”

“I would just like to commend Katarina Phang for her teachings of self-discovery and empowering us all to be better and stronger individuals. Each day I am learning something new about myself and about my life. Learning is a beautiful journey and we all should be so proud of how far we all have come. It’s not about the men in our lives its about us and about healing our wounded souls from our pasts. Since my coaching with Kat I have a new outlook on life and I actually am beginning to love myself again and rebuild trust within myself.

You see I thought I didn’t trust men but I didn’t trust myself. Letting go starts with me not anyone else. Self-love, without it sounding cliche, will set you free. Boost your soul your self-confidence and self-worth and work on you love you and the rest will fall into place. Get high-value without the arrogance. Thank you Kat for the endless support.

I’m bloody embarrassed I’m a new person. I look back and think jeez I was living in my head just sitting in emotional rubbish and junk. The work is up to me but you are a great teacher… Who knows where I would be now if it wasn’t for your coaching.

I can honestly say, I think Kat will be huge famous”

I tell you, I have bought so many other relationship ebooks and I remember reading them, getting a little insight, but still felt frustrated as to how to feel better and how to really take control of my life again. But your ebook plus your commitment to the coaching plus the guided meditations, I can really see that you’re not like the others, and it’s refreshing. You actually take the time and guide. I almost did not buy your book being skeptical but my instinct told me to do it, and I’m glad I did. I’m glad you were willing to help me out with the coaching earlier instead of me waiting until the 2nd cycle. My EUM’s birthday is 8/31 and I would’ve probably been devastated with the crazy thoughts of who he’s with and what he’s doing, now I’ll be calmer and stronger. I’ll probably be at work or go out with friends after so I can focus on me again Thank you. ?

Omg! Kat! I just want to hug you right now!!! My EUM actually CALLED, which never happened before, and told me he’s purposely was not giving my watch back so he could see me again! And he asked if I want to go to Dave & Busters on Saturday! Whaaaat??? That’s just soooo unbelievable…..!

You are not only a man whisperer, you are women’s brain changer! Yep. You can put that on your timeline! Lol”

Hi Kat! I just signed up for your program. I am your fan for life, and want to know more. You have no idea how many books on relationships I’ve read in the past year, and nothing seemed to be working! After purchasing your book, and seeing results right away, not signing up for your program would be dumb! LOL. I just got a text message from my EUM “YOU ARE AMAZING!” Dang, of course I am. ;

Remember how he was all jerk about my watch? You were right! He got the kick! When he called, he said, “You can can have any man you want in a heartbeat, but right now I AM talking to you. Am I special?” Seriously, this kind of conversation is out of this world! HE asks me if he is special to me. AND I was the one chasing him!

I said, “Of course you are special and unique, but let’s not put any labels.” And then he said, “I just miss you so much!”

Crazy, huh???

He just sent me text you are so sexy! What should I say? Thank you? Lol?

You clearly put a ton of blood, sweat and tears into it! Was a moving experience I enjoyed fully. Each class was better and better. And there is always so very much to learn from others. The topics and learning opportunities are endless……. Looking forward to the next.

It was a great class. I didn’t think I would react so emotionally since the visualization itself was not traumatic but it certainly all connected. I feel calmer today- can’t explain it well but I feel more centered than I have been in the past two weeks. I also re-read your entire e-book while listening to the replay. I’m finally “getting”it- baby steps but it’s starting to take hold.

“My EUM now my boyfriend met my parents yesterday for a BBQ at my house. My man cooked for us showing off his awesome cooking skills! What a milestone of a year and half of being an EUM, and now he’s committed to me and his divorce is finalised in two weeks! I can honestly say if it wasn’t for Katarina Phang and her coaching and books I wouldn’t be where I am. Kat knows her stuff and teaches you about men!!

What I’ve learned from Katarina Phang:

And this can be applied in all areas of your life. I wish I knew this stuff years and years ago!!

*The work starts and ends with you…- this means that if you’re not happy with you, your life your goals, friends, family etc, your outlook is negative, and your perception is out of whack, you will rely on others for happiness and to make you feel better. Wrong. No one else can make you happy except you and when you do the work of liking yourself and learning to boost your own confidence and self esteem you will never need anyone in your life. Of course we all desire to be around others and have relationships but you know deep down within yourself that you are at peace and happy with you that the whole world wouldn’t end if you were on your own.

*Drop expectations and assumptions – Never speculate or assume things . This negative outlook is not productive and isn’t of positive energy when you are thinking negatively what you focus on expands and you begin to live in your own head. Never expect anything from anyone, be the best person you can be but never expect someone else to do anything. Be humble, courteous and do things for others because you want to, not because they owe you something in return. Love without expectations and sit with that energy. It’s a beautiful thing when you sit in pure non judging, fearless love. The anxiety, fears and negative thought patterns will shift, and you will begin to vibrate at a higher frequency which means more positive things will begin to change and happen in your life.

*Never chase – Leaning back letting a man be a man and allowing them to flow the relationship, you will be surprised how much a man will give to you and for fill your desires when you change the way you approach things. Leaning back is safe. It protects and nurtures relationships as well as our power within the relationship. If he isn’t taking it forward, move on, never settle for crumbs, you are high value and when you treat yourself as high value everyone else does.

*Learn to be quiet- you don’t have to entertain the drama train or be there for every argument. Learn to take a breath, calm down and use feeling messages if applicable. Always think before you speak, a trick I use is a filtering technique: I check in with myself to see if my response is emotional or logical. When you run off emotions it repels men, when you’re calm and self assured, you learn to pick and choose your battles.

*Be comfortable with space – Give men space and time. It’s crucial men have their alone time as well as not being questioned for it. Don’t freak out or think he’s pulling away, it’s in your absence that men miss and adore you more. Giving men the reigns makes them feel in control but really both people are in control. Men like to chase and they like to know they’re winning.”

My EUM and I had a nice weekend cooking for friends and had a great time. Tonight I came home and he was outside with one of his good friends. After his friend leaves he tells me had a good time with me this weekend and tells me he has fun with me now. I asked him what’s changed and he replies he’s not sure but I seem less uptight and more open. He asks me what are we doing here and asked if I wanted to give it a try again. I said sure lets try and if it doesn’t work . . . He interrupts me and says no it’s gotta work. He tells me he asked all his friends including the one that was over to ask them what they thought and they all agreed he was a better man with me in his life. I was smiling on the inside as I realized the quick shift doing the inner work Katarina teaches made in this relationship. Tonight he’s in bed with me and not the couch. ?

He’s my ex, well was my ex. We have two children and we have been together off and on for 12 years. We had a terrible break up over a year and a half ago. He was staying on my couch platonically for the past two months and convinced himself we were done..LOL.

He lost his well paying job at the same moment I found out I was pregnant with our 2nd child. He turned towards the bottle I turned super critical and emasculating. I moved out of our shared home and we spent a year apart.

I love him and I’m enjoying each day as it unfolds the less expectations and pressure I bring to the situation the easier and happier he and I become. Let me tell you if Katarina method works on him it will work on any man. Lol!

OK, now this is great! I have a date with my EUM that wanted the ‘break.” It has been six weeks. We text and now have spoken with each other a couple of times, longer conversations than ever. I am sweet and concerned. Instead of just going to the concert, we are now going to dinner and a concert.

In the meantime, I have been on a dating website and it is crazy. I just let them contact me. The first date was ugh…boring. I went out last nite, in a cute little dress and met a guy I had spoken to a few times. We danced and he is crazy about me. He can’t put a finger on it but told me I am so different from the others he has dated…. and said when we were dancing that everyone was looking at me…hmmm.

Guess I am getting it, Katarina. I feel confident, feminine, not worried about a relationship. I have another date tomorrow night and am looking forward to it.

When my guy that I love sees me on my birthday for our date, he is going to see a huge difference in me, I know it. It will be interesting to see what happens. We have actually already planned a future date in October for a concert and I am sure that we will see each other between now and then. That tells me that he wants to move forward. I am so excited about the change in myself, the coaching the Katarina has given me. I feel strong, sexy, feminine and I don’t need anyone! My business is going crazy and WOW! Thank you Katarina! I told you that you would be proud of me!!!

You are the teacher and you teach well! When I have a question, you respond immediately. You give encouragement and tell me if I am not doing something right, or tell me how to handle a situation. You are a friend and I feel you care about me and my ‘issues’. You have been there, so you can relate to how I am feeling. Katarina, you have seen me change from a puddle to a confident, happy woman. I have to admit, I still have a heart tug at times, when I wonder what is going to happen, but I know at the same time that no matter what, there is someone out there that will work to earn my love and treasure me.

I am so grateful I found you…what a change you have guided me to in my life. I am actually grateful that my guy wanted to take a ‘break’ because if he hadn’t I would never have grown like I have. I would have never understood myself and I would have never ‘met’ you! Bless you, Katarina. I feel I have a friend for life!”

“Katarina Phang, I am one of your clients and ardent followers..and my life has changed tremendously because of your simple concept (but must come with deep understanding of course).
It’s easy for a man to be masculine (giving, nurturing, providing, protecting) with a feminine woman (accepting, loving, inviting, caring). It’s like yin and yang. Yin can’t work with yin, as yang can’t work with yang without any problem.

I speak this from experience (by practicing your tools) hence the above scenario.

I need to state that being demure and accepting that Katarina Phang teaches is about being strong and resilient but with a different approach..

Feminine women also have boundaries and limits but they make their boundaries known to their men in a different way and to my own surprise, it works for me many times! And he keeps coming back afterwards.

Feminine women would not even be attracted to just any man. They also know when and how to walk away when a relationship doesn’t serve them… but without drama.

Leaning back and mirroring won’t work for me if I haven’t done the inner work. It’s your Journey Inward program that does it for me, how our past wounds affect our choice in men and how we view the world and it’s not even these men’s fault for being who they are because you teach us that we attract men of the same level of woundedness that we are in. Once we are healed and stop seeing other external factors as the problem, we won’t even bother to look at these men twice, everything is within us. That’s the most powerful lesson I have learnt from you and it gives me so much power because I can change ME. And this is feminine magnetism. I don’t see myself being weak for applying this concept. In fact, it’s the opposite.

Katarina Phang, I am your biggest fan. I love your method because it is so easy to follow. My life has changed in just 1 month, not because of miracles happened, but I changed my approach from masculine to feminine to the same situation that was hurting me..and I am happy… and my EUM keeps saying that I am easy to be with..and easy to please so he keeps on wanting to spend time with me 24/7 even though he is tired and always motivated to keep on pleasing me.”