Four Components of Melting His Heart Group Coaching
(This Program Has Resulted In TWENTY FIVE ENGAGEMENTS And Counting….)
The CYCLE 3 of these Six Weekly 2 hr Teleclasses have just ended. My method has given birth to 100 ENGAGEMENTS (number changes fast, FYI) in the past 3 years. You will not see this high rate of success anywhere else. So this cycle will be “The Goddess Road To Engagement” Edition.
For only $499 will jumpstart your love life or move it to the NEXT LEVEL. You can also purchase Cycle 1 and 2 replays out of which these three engagements were born here but I strongly recommend you sign up for this new cycle because after my awakening a lot of new insights will be added to the program. These are four components of melting a man’s heart that I teach all my clients without which your relationship will remain STAGNANT and/or volatile and with which their men become so madly in love with them that they step up to the plate WITHOUT URGING or NUDGING:
Week 1: Trusting him.
- Trust inspires a man to rise to the occasion. He feels accepted and connected to you as the result. This class will explore how to trust him anyway even when you are feeling shaky inside. Without trust your relationship will crumble in no time.
Week 2: Thanking/appreciating him.
- How to encourage good behaviors that get you more good behaviors and how to overcome your displeasure of things that bother you by shifting your perspective, and thus energy.
Week 3: Respecting his leadership.
- How to be comfortable in the feminine role of following a man’s lead and respond in a feminine way when you disagree with him and need to veto his decision.
Week 4: Communicating to him
- in a non-verbal way that he understands and appreciates when words have fallen on deaf ears. Learn the secret of
why and how men would listen to you
- . Women often follow generic advice out there on how to communicate with guys that do more damage than helping them getting what they want. This class will reverse that.
Week 5: Interview with some of the ladies who got engaged this year.
- Learn from them how they pulled this off.
(NEW! Previous Cycles Don’t have this class)Week 6: Bonus Session, the never-before-revealed Seven Reasons Why Men Marry Some Women and Dump Others.
- This class alone is worth the entire program!
(NEW! Previous Cycles Don’t have this class)
LATEST UPDATE: Two of my star clients, Keisha and Chelsea got a ring two recent weekends in a row. Both of them signed up for the very first cycle of this program. It makes 19 engagements so far out of this brand new program!
First, My very first client Chelsea that I interviewed for the Feminine Goddess and Enlightened Relationship monthly membership whom I always touted as one of the most successful Goddesses that I have given birth to (cause she gets it), as I predicted, got engaged.She gushed in the support group (get my ebook to be included): “Aww thank you so, so much, everyone! I’m so touched and overwhelmed by everyone’s wishes. It was absolutely amazing- we’re vacationing in Jamaica right now and before we left, everyone at work and friends were all pretty much betting that he would do it on our holiday. I dunno, it was just a feeling! He just kept telling me “I love you sooooo much” and would kiss me so tenderly, it just felt like he was ready – and then he would be quite distracted by messages etc. There were a few other clues which were quite obvious in hindsight but I just wrote them off in my head so I could drop my expectations as well ;).But when it didn’t happen the first couple of days, I just wrote off the idea and stopped thinking about it. Turns out he had the ring and had planned to do it on the trip, but didn’t really know when or how he was going to do it – hence the delay.So the night before, our resort was lit by moonlight and I was commenting on how magical it was… We were walking around the moonlight filled beach and he thought it was the perfect time to do it – but he didn’t have the ring on him (back at the villa) so he couldn’t do it. Anyways the next day after lunch, we walked back to the villa, and he just sat on the lounge chair on the deck, and pulled me towards him and held me. He asked me the question, but because I didn’t think it was going to happen, I thought I mis-heard – so I said, “what?” He repeated the question again and I said, “really?” He nodded and pulled out the ring.Turns out he’d been thinking about it for two months – he had asked my dad for permission when they were over 2 months ago. After he asked, he spent the next two months researching rings, speaking to friends and dealers, sourcing the stone from Geneva, then taking it for setting etc. He put in so much work and he’s SO proud of it – keeps asking to look at it on my hand etc. Absolutely adorable ″
Second, my client Keisha just recently got back together with her ex and yet their relationship was still continually up and down, partly thanks to the family crisis both went through (him with his dad who suffers from cancer and her with her mother who was also diagnosed with cancer after they got back together and recently passed from an accident unrelated to her illness). She took marriage off the table already when they got back together. They were taking a break again a few months later thanks to the crisis -she basically is ready to move on altogether and just focusing on her family- and throughout it all he kept bring up the marriage to which she didn’t take so seriously.So two weekends ago (today is 11/13/2014) he came up with a ring and asked her to marry him. She hasn’t said yes, surprise…surprise! This is what she said:“Katarina Phang, you will be the first to know! Ha. My thought is, look, he had me waiting around for marriage for 7 years. 7 YEARS. LOL. We have a few things to sort out first. I love him and this is all I ever wanted. However, I’m full of a lot of emotions right now with the loss of my mother so suddenly and tragically, to be honest, myself and my family are my priority. I’m super busy flying back and forth to FL each month at least to help my dad deal with all the business dealings attached to this process we have to go through. We haven’t begun to even sort through things in the house on a basic level. It’s just not my main concern right now. I think I need to be a little more together before I would finalize anything. Also, he is switching over jobs and that’s a transition. I just feel like we have waited this long. We have these priorities that I would like to feel less vulnerable about that I mentioned above. If it’s meant to be, it will be. I’m not scared or rushed to ” lock something in”…….. I am confident the time will come when everything falls into place for me emotionally and in that moment, is when I want to accept. Free and clear to the extent it’s possible. We just want to do it right this time around. Make sense? Or absolutely crazy sounding!!!???? Lol. That’s just how I feel about it. I trust it’s going to just happen when it is suppose to. If he can’t wait for that and respect me wanting it like that, then he should head back onto the road. It’s not all about him anymore after 7 years, he owes me this at a minimum. #goodthingscometothosewhowait as Katarina says: #highvaluewoman = you are not so easily replaced. Remember that. When you truly believe that to your core being then there is no anxiety, fear, need to control a situation or outcome. They will wait. The alternative isn’t one they are fond of as they have already made their little trip into the real world and have a full understanding of what’s out there. You believe this completely when you call the shots. Not from a place of control or insecurity. From a place that’s honoring you and what you need. Once you respect and follow what your instinct and mind tell you what you need, your needs are met and you can move from that place of complete fullness to a functional relationship where you work together. # respect4you. #youhavearrived “
STOP PRESS: Fresh from the oven. My client Chrissy is having a good problem that will make many women green with envy: “Ok I’m freaking out. My boyfriend proposed! Great you’re thinking. What’s wrong? We’ve known each other 6 months. Four of those as an exclusive couple. Too damn soon! This from a guy I was chasing and leaning forward so much that I almost chased him away until I found this group. I suggested we revisit this the end of the year. When it’s been longer. But now I’m wondering what the heck is wrong with him to want to marry me so fast! Am I creating a problem where there’s none or am I justified in being a bit freaked out?
I turned him down!! I said propose again after a year. Yeah I freaked out. I just don’t want another failed marriage and it seems rushing into something so fast wouldn’t help.
And it’s not that I don’t love him very much. And this has been the easiest relationship, with the least amount of friction I’ve ever been in. I just need to see that continuing a bit longer to know 100% this has a chance of working for long term, since I really do want to minimize as much as possible the chance of another divorce. So it’s not that I don’t have the feelings, I just want to make sure no crazy comes out in the next few months. lol”
Chrissy is in this VERY program (other than all my other programs). It seems that she’s so burning hot he’s already melted beyond shape even before the program ends! ? Do you want to have the same problem with the man you love? You can go no wrong with this.
We have had forty ladies so far signing up for this new group coaching program. I see everyday how women struggle with keeping themselves grounded and getting their needs met without causing their men to pull away.
This hardship is aggravated by the fact that many of these women are so wounded, triggered and often act on their woundedness. Hence, instead of getting their needs communicated and fulfilled, what they get is the total opposite. Often these episodes cause repeated breakups.
This state of emotional roller-coaster becomes a vicious cycle with no light at the end of the tunnel.
These skills are complementary of the inner skills you have gained through my two other hit programs Journey Inward and the Leaning Back Workshop. This is the nitty-gritty of those broad personal and interpersonal skills translated into actions with detail pertaining to specific situations common to most relationships. This program will complete your inner power that is going to make you so utterly irresistible to the men you adore.
Good bye tears and heartache and be totally utterly unbelievably cherished…
“Katarina Phang You are amazing!! It’s been a year with my guy!! I won’t call him EUM as he is now mine and all mine. He has claimed me!! Rori Raye opened my eyes to getting in tuned with my feelings more and when talking to man express it with feeling messages!! Honey, you took this step further and with huge differences between you both, as you know the right way of how a woman should speak to a man, the right way to engage a man’s emotions that allows “true connection” to happen in the moment! You truly understand men and how to trigger them!! I used your lines and all of your suggestions and that was the magic pill that kept him engaged!! So happy you told me my work with him was not done, as you were correct I got pissed and ended things!! I returned stayed feminine and finally accepted the idea of dating rotation which I guess sent off a different aura/vibe to me!!”
“Katarina, I have to say I came across your online articles and book in December 2013 and your philosophy was unique and eye-opening. It has completely changed the way I view men, dating, relationships, and myself. Your combo techniques of doing/resolving intensive inner work plus finding our feminine plus mirroring plus leaning back does wonders, and has created a shift in my life. It is the combination of all these techniques that is so empowering AND effective. This forum alone has been priceless and it’s amazing to watch people transform over just weeks on here! Following your philosophy and the advice of everyone here has not only improved my dating life but overflowed into other areas of my life as well. I appreciate what you have developed and shared with so many women who need it. You deserve the accolades you’re getting . xoxo”Sally, Washington DC
“For those who don’t know if Katarina Phang’s method works? Well, look at what my boyfriend of 6 weeks wrote to me today.
“Other women have been smothering and overly possessive, always worrying that I might stray. I never did, but it made me want to.
“You don’t do things like that, and it makes me want only you. Thank you. I just realized how refreshing it feels to be trusted, and to have someone who is comfortable with letting me breathe. You’re a blessing, Nadya. “
Thanks Kat!”Nadya, NY
Hi Kat! It’s been a while and I want to give you an update. I have 3 men pursuing me hard at this moment, all of them are saying they’re crazy about me, telling me how soft I am and they have no idea how can they be so drawn to me only after one date. One of them, a very high rank commander from the army flew 3 hours flight to visit me only after one full day non stop phone calls. And not just that he said I’m everything he’s looking in a woman and he already met my mom, he requested that. He said he will come to propose whenever I’m ready. I told him to take it slow. Lol.
You’re absolutely right, they are all putty in my hands just by practicing everything you taught me. As for my EUM, I still use him as my practice. He still serves me in some ways. I’m enjoying them all. So thank you Kat! I love you.
One more thing, they are all want to claim me, as in making me their wife. But I don’t want to be claimed. Yet, I still aim higher lol…Vivi, Indonesia
I am so grateful to have found Katarina, her book, and this group back in January. I have had something going on with an EUM for over a year now, and have begun to realize it really isn’t working for me anymore. I have been toying with the idea of “breaking up” with him for several weeks, and finally did. I did so via email tonight, which may not be as intimate as face-to-face interaction, but felt it was best as our encounters usually start with a passionate kisses/touching, then talking, eating, whatever is going on.
With it being so late, of course, I have not heard back from him. I don’t know if I will soon (I’m sure I will once he thinks of what to say back), but feel such a release. Like a heavy weight was lifted off of me. I followed her “when to walk away” bit shown in the book, but personalized it for my own feelings. I like her advice “you must will to lose a man in order to keep him.” I have no interest in dating as of now, but just feel so free.
I have followed other dating advisors before finding her, like Rori Raye, Renee Wade, Evan Marc Katz, and some others, and Kat has really put all of their advice into a perspective I didn’t see beforehand. Now, when I read some of their stuff again and go back to it, I see it much more clearly than what I did months ago. Kat’s advice WILL improve your love life, and life in other aspects, too. Thank you so much to all you lovely ladies here, and the men who participate here, too.
Renee and Rori both go on about the feminine energy, loving a person (man) exactly as they are. I like Rori’s style, though, of course, I wouldn’t date up until I was married, just until I had a boyfriend whom I was exclusive with, etc. I followed Renee’s advice for a long time, which is very similar to yours, but for some reason, couldn’t implement well until I found your site. Then, it was as if a light bulb went off in my head. I was – almost subconsciously – expecting more to come out of it, while following the ladies’ advice, when I should have expected nothing.
Evan Marc Katz talk about leaning back, and feminine energy, but seems like a no-nonsense, don’t-waste-your-time kind of guy. I also believe most of his clients are in their mid to upper thirties, and have been through divorces and children, or getting ‘later’ in age and wanting to find a secure mate within the next few years and produce children. I am just a few weeks shy of twenty-one, so if I dated guys in my age range, it would be a bit of a different scenario. May-December relationships aren’t unusual in my life (my parents are decades apart in age), so I believe that part of me wants to be fun and single, yet find a secure stable mate, too.Vera, Michigan